wl and al
2004-05-15, 4:29 p.m.
hey!
juz a quick update before my piano lesson in..*looks at clock*. half hr's time. okay..maybe not so quick. =P
remember that update where i said..i should thank my past..and stop welling in them? i found another reason for doing that..yesterday..i met this friend..who had just quarreled with her boyfriend..when i'd finally coerced the truth of what happened..(nothing.. -.-) outta her..first thing i told her to do..break up with him. sounds aggressive i know..i'll tell you what happened..and you judge.
they have been together for more than a year..he plays basketball all day long..she comes with him some time..(how i met her.) but she always end up leaving for home alone..she talked to him about it..about how oughtn't he set some time for her? spare juz some time to be with her? and not basketball the whole day. he says..he'd over-pampered her..in the past..(that i wouldn't know..) but the point here isn't whether that was the truth or not..except..there ain't such thing called "over-pampered". as shihui says..girls are for guys to pamper. (how egoistical! =X i agree~ +X) but in this case..she's right. she is his girlfriend..isn't all that the bare minimum? for him to dote on her? there were more on what i said..but i think there are too much to fit in here. =P i feel so unjust for her..is that how bf(s) should treat their gf(s)? if that's the case..i really should think alot about getting "attached" again..
(an ending for them..) i do hope that they can stay together..but if the price of that is her being neglected..i'll rather she take the pain of the breakup..matter of short-term and long-term..she wrote a letter sort of thing to him yesterday..i didn't see what was in there..(duhz..invasion of privacy~) i juz hope..whatever was in there..can either change him permanently..or keep her from pain for a long time..oya. they quarrel alot too. +X
good advice is a thing that can only be given when you've experienced it yourself..though i can't say i've experienced what she has..(thank goodness) what i know..have allowed me a chance to give her pretty solid advice..and that's enough for me..for now. (ambitious. i know. =P)
that's all i want to say..i shall end with this word. go figure~
-foolishness-
Sapphire..
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