what a girl wants, what a girl needs.
2007-11-17, 1:45 a.m.
I got reminded of how important communication is. I could go on and on about it's role in everyone's life, but i'll just speak of what's on my mind, no doubt a 'lil encrypted.
When do you decide what should/should not what could/could not be said to the significant other? Maybe guys are more straightforward, in telling the shes what they want or expect, but girls on an average are cryptic and hopeful. They expect guys to be telepathics or mindreaders knowing exactly (or roughly) when they're not in the best of moods, and the reasons behind those, or the reasons to why the girls might be feeling displeasure towards the guys. It is unfair to men you may say, and i fully agree as all sensible women would, but that does not change this trait in women one bit. And sadly, one does not grow out of it. It takes alot to understand your girl, maybe that's why so many books on "knowing women" etc are around.
That is just a girl's way of hiding her inability to communicate. Many a time, she wants to say what's on her mind, yet she may either..fear the reaction of him, or prefer having him understand without telling. Girls adore small gestures. As i've emphasized over and over again, i've recognized that trait almost all my life. I, for one, can still remember him opening the bottle cap 4-5 years ago. You all know how well (or short) my memory is, and if i can remember this minor events from so many years back, can't you see the impact of such gestures? It doesn't take alot to satisfy a girl really. Not speaking for those materialistic shallow etc girls. On an average, any girl who is capable of providing for themselves don't really take expensive gifts to please, or even any gifts at all. Concluding what would (almost) never fail to please a girl in terms of gifts.
Remember...:
flowers (roses for the safe bet unless you know her better)
soft toy (preferably something you know she adores)
chocolates (milk chocolates are the safest, whites are not a bad choice either, girls normally don't really like dark)
accessories (there are normally a pattern to things she likes, stick to it)
clothes (if you know her style and preferences)
Anything at all, from nail polish to anything feminine (not very helpful is this)
But face it, all she ever wants is for you to pay attention to her. Buying the right gifts demonstrates that, that you know what she likes and vice versa. Every girl loves a sensitive guy (some cross the line and becomes emo guy, na da), showing attention paid to her is very important, because she will (very often) hint you through her actions that you'll miss easily.
Truely, guys probably want the same type of treatment from girls, but girls (again in general) are more sensitive. It takes two hands to clap. =) Remember:"happiness is but a by-product"
And on a closing note...Cha! I love you! =) And for all you jealous babies reading this, i probably love you too! =P Oh well, i need to go bathe. Sigh. Oh! Before i forget, SKATING TOMORROW! <3 And on a personal note, i'm such a physical kind of person. I love hugs and cuddles. Human contact is nothing without physical interaction. (Sounds wrong, interprete it however you want, i know what i mean) So if i did like i said, stay a mile away from everyone, i'll probably die. Lol. Goodnight and *hugs!*. Smiles for there's always sunshine after the thunderstorm.
Sapph
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